I have to give credit for this to the adorable and informative Little Red - I added and changed a couple. **If you're reading this, consider yourself tagged**
1. Favorite candle scent - I'm going to start off with a buzzkill right of the bat I guess. I don't use candles. Unless there's a blackout. Then I use whatever I have stuffed in the back of my bathroom cupbord - usually cheap gifts from 10 years ago. I don't hate christmas, or ambiance. I kind of get it. But I think I won't be a candle person any time soon and here's why: 1) I have small children 2) I have an almost obsessive compulsive fear of my house burning down, every time I light a candle for halloween or an outside bbq I start feeling paranoid that I'm goign to forget about it and hit the sack and wake up in a pile of flames. In fact I didn't even use candles this halloween, I used those LED lights. Thank god for those. 3) I used to be into candles but however delicious the scent, I would always get tired of it after a while. 4) I am an anti-hoarder, I don't like keeping non-essential things around. Candles fall into that category.
2. Coffee, tea, or hot chocolate - it depends on the time of day, I like them all. I typically have a mocha in the morning and tea during the day and evening. I LOVE warm drinks. They are so therapeutic. I don't drink caffeine though, I kind of wish I did. But it makes me too shaky and nervous, like a chihuahua. So I drink a lot of decaf coffee and espresso and for tea I like mint.
3. Favorite memory of fall - watching the rain outside my parents huge picture window. They have a beautiful lot and really tall lush redwoods providing a backdrop so when it would rain, you could see each individual drop. And the room and window were so big and tall that you felt like you were right in the downpour, only you were warm and toasty at the time.
4. Which makeup change do you prefer: dark lips or winged eyeliner? - this is tough. I'm going with winged eyeliner. So many people are pulling it off in very subtle ways. I think it's so current and beautiful and it even works at the office. Dark lips are fun for special occasions, but if everything else about your makeup and look aren't done right, it can look goth or cheap.
5. Preferred body fragrance - PRADA candy. Flowerbomb is a close second.
6. Favorite thanksgiving food - Tofurkey. I'm a vegetarian and I've tried ALLLLLL the turkey alternatives and most of them are seriously gross. This one is a perennial winner. I can't wait!
7. Does your skincare routine change in fall? I have to take more incessant care of my lips and hands. They get dry so much faster. I use a lot more vaseline, my dirty little beauty secret. And hand/nail treatments. My face routine doesn't really change. I always use a pretty rich cream morning and night.
8. Most worn sweater- honestly this year the award goes to the drapy black cardigan from WHBM that I described here. It was an impulse purchase that I felt kind of guilty about, like what do I need this for? But now I don't know what I would have done in the past couple months without it.
9. Most worn fall nail polish? - reds. And dark colors - dark navy, garnet, emerald.
10. Puddle jumping or sitting by the fire? The fire, for sure. I get a lot of both with kids. Puddle jumping and walking around in the rain is fun (for like 20 minutes) and I can pretend its exercise, but I much prefer being warm and cozy.
11. Skinny jeans or leggings - I am a skinny jeans girl. I LOVE leggings and despite having a pretty decent bod (if i do say so myself), I think I am over the age limit for leggings unless I'm wearing them with a dress.
12. Favorite starbucks seasonal flavor? salted caramel. I love caramel, and I love sweet and salty anything. Seriously, I put sea salt and sometimes pretzles on my ice cream.
13. Favorite thing to watch on TV when it's raining/snowing? Same as what I like to watch when it's not cold out. I like reality tv. I love million dollar listing, some of the talent/singing shows, Parenthood (I know, not reality), the Shahs and the Real Housewives.
14. What is the fall weather like where you live? I live in northern california and it gets to be in the high 50's, low 60's during the day, and it rains every few weeks. Pretty innocuous.
15. Does your exercise routine change in the cold weather? I don't really have a "routine" per say right now. I do some walking and running outside and that takes some warm gear if it's cold or rainy. I'm usually decked out in lululemon.
Monday, November 25, 2013
Thursday, November 21, 2013
Christmas Shopping!
Are you one of those people who can't get a round of xmas shopping in without treating yourself to a little something? Well consider yourself forgiven. You deserve it for dealing with gridlock parking lots, rain, kids (your own or others'), lines, and paralyzing indecision (again, your own or others'). Here's what I got myself during yesterday's gift haul:
It's so great. I saw it in a gift set and went directly to the Chanel counter to get the full-priced single. What can I say. When you see "the one" you just know. This is actually my first true red shade. I never thought of myself as a true red nail or lip kind of girl but I am going to have to re-think that because I'm in love with this. It's the perfect holiday color too.
The first coat went on a little fuchia but by the second coat it was true to the bottle, and even a bit more burgundy than it looks in the picture (which looks downright pink on my monitor - sorry, again with my dreams of getting a real camera). Chanel gets a lot of flack for chipping but I've found that this stays on as well as any of my Dior shades, although not as well as Guerlain or Illamasqua.
I also found these amazing gift sets for some lovely ladies on my list:
These both feature Philosophy's miraculous shampoo, shower gel, and bubble bath-in-one as well as an extra matching festive product. There were even more selections at Nordstrom and most are around $25 and under. Perfect for teachers, friends, in-laws, people for whom you need to get a "little something" and more affordable (and more useful imho) than a starbucks card.
The first coat went on a little fuchia but by the second coat it was true to the bottle, and even a bit more burgundy than it looks in the picture (which looks downright pink on my monitor - sorry, again with my dreams of getting a real camera). Chanel gets a lot of flack for chipping but I've found that this stays on as well as any of my Dior shades, although not as well as Guerlain or Illamasqua.
I also found these amazing gift sets for some lovely ladies on my list:
Saturday, November 16, 2013
The transition
I wrote about an impending change in work and financial circumstances in my opening post. Well, the change is upon us. I am currently a somewhat highly-paid professional with a lot of stress and little time for my kids and hobbies and this winter I am finally going to make the move to a new career. It will pay probably about half (or less) of what I'm making now which means my choices in fashion and beauty will be somewhat different. Particularly in fashion. No more burberry coats, no more tall leather boots and Manolos. Not for a while. In fact, my new year's resolution this year is not to buy a single pair of new shoes. You read that right. I think I can do it because I have classic style and thus far have had expensive taste - the collection I have should last me for a while both in terms of being fashion-forward and high-quality. Since I don't know what kind of office culture I will walk into on my next job, I am also at a loss about what to wear there. But stay tuned. Cosmetic choices will probably vary a little less, the price point on luxury beauty items is typically just not as high compared to designer clothing. And I am very committed to quality skincare and makeup. With clothes, it's easier to fake being expensive-looking.
This transition should make my posts all the more interesting and relevant. And I may cover more than just my own spending and hauls in these two categories. E.g. it's the giving season and I plan to include a lot about what to buy discerning family members, particularly when they're used to luxury goods like retail-priced Kate Spade wallets and Coach watches.
But first, in the way of some eye candy and review material, my last two lululemon purchases (for a while):
Dog Runner ($118): For dropping the kids off at daycare on a stay-at-home work day, or going to the beach or for a hike on the weekends. This is flattering, technically appropriate, and appropriately casual. The lining is so so warm and is almost a separate legging, but is sewn into the looser shell at the top. I got inkwell.
Stuido Pant ($118 with liner, $108 without): Similar to the Dog Runner but more rouched and without the clingy lining. I have THREE pairs of studio crops and wear them all. A lot. During the summer. This is the perfect addition to my fall casual wardrobe. I will probably get them in black. They serve basically the same purpose as the ones above, just a slightly different style. The unlined version serves as a nice cover up on your way to yoga or a loose long sport pant, the lined version is for cold wintery outings.
This transition should make my posts all the more interesting and relevant. And I may cover more than just my own spending and hauls in these two categories. E.g. it's the giving season and I plan to include a lot about what to buy discerning family members, particularly when they're used to luxury goods like retail-priced Kate Spade wallets and Coach watches.
But first, in the way of some eye candy and review material, my last two lululemon purchases (for a while):
Dog Runner ($118): For dropping the kids off at daycare on a stay-at-home work day, or going to the beach or for a hike on the weekends. This is flattering, technically appropriate, and appropriately casual. The lining is so so warm and is almost a separate legging, but is sewn into the looser shell at the top. I got inkwell.
Stuido Pant ($118 with liner, $108 without): Similar to the Dog Runner but more rouched and without the clingy lining. I have THREE pairs of studio crops and wear them all. A lot. During the summer. This is the perfect addition to my fall casual wardrobe. I will probably get them in black. They serve basically the same purpose as the ones above, just a slightly different style. The unlined version serves as a nice cover up on your way to yoga or a loose long sport pant, the lined version is for cold wintery outings.
Wednesday, November 6, 2013
Winter Warmth
Here is my collective winter haul for this year. Tim Gunn once said in his "Guide to Quality, Taste, and Style" (a must read) - don't buy it unless it will be the best piece you own (I'm paraphrasing, he said it better). That's how i feel about all of these in different ways. They are not all fabulous and chic; some are for casual days. But the tags are all clipped off and I don't know what I would do without any of them. Starting with the most fabulous...
Burberry Brit Double Breasted Peacoat ($ 895) - this is the second burberry item I've purchased (the other is the obligatory Balmoral trench, below). I don't do this often. It takes a pretty special item for me to spend almost a grand on it. I have returned more burberry coats than I own for not being just right. But this one is just. right. It fits WAY better than the Balmoral. It's a little more forgiving in the arms and chest (I have a very modest sized chest area but still have problems with the tightness of the Balmoral in the same size). The fabric is from heaven. It's a wool blend with a hint of cashmere and it's super soft and stays structured-looking without giving up comfort. I love the length, you don't feel like the coat is wearing you. And the styling is amazing. Very typical conservative peacoat in the front (I was afraid it looked a little too military on the models but it is fine in person), no ridiculous flashy old fashioned buttons, and the pleating in back makes it so feminine without being too girly. I'm in love with this. I also wanted something other than the typical black that wouldn't show dirt too much and navy is so classic. See I can't stop talking about this one.
Burberry Brit Balmoral Trench ($750): This is a standby, I've actually had it for a year so it doesn't count as part of the "haul." I only wear it on super gray rainy or drizzly days because it is just a shell (not very warm on its own) and also because it has to be a pretty crappy day in California to be able to pull off a trench. Also it's not the most comfortable thing in my closet. As I mentioned above the shoulders and chest area are really tight (e.g. you can feel the fabric straining a little when you lift your arms up to grab the steering wheel). It is best worn with your arms strait down at your sides which is not entirely practical. But it is very sharp looking and protects well against the elements. I LOVE that it's machine washable, packable, and the perfect trench color.
Draped Collar Cover Up from White House Black Market ($88) - I was in WHBM for something totally unrelated and the saleswoman put this in my dressing room to try and I haven't really taken it off since. The picture doesn't really do it justice. It goes with everything and adds style to whatever else I'm wearing. And it didn't break the bank like the first couple items. It's really warm, unlike some other flimsy cardigans I have from some other mid-range, trendy stores who shall remain nameless. And it resists pilling or looking old even after having worn it for a hundred days in a row (I'm exaggerating a little but I am impressed at how well it holds up). It's also an amazing length, covers the muffin top zone and hangs low enough in the back. It's styled well too, the drape collar looks more like a subtle ruffle collar and I love the angle the front hem is cut at.
Unfortunately this next one is no longer available (maybe on ebay?) but I've also been wearing it a lot lately and there are similar jackets out there. This is also from WHBM and cost a bit more than the last, $395 I think. It's their "tiered" leather jacket from last year. This thing is so cute, the front has tiered panels and the bottom has a little peplum style ruffle that goes all the way around to the back. Some of the reviews warned me not to try it on if I wasn't prepared to buy it. They were right. It's so cute and so comfortable. I have never owned a leather jacket and don't think i will ever need another. While this one is playing to the ruffle and peplum trends, it may end up being a classic since the detailing is more feminine than trendy.
BCBG Zoie Shawl-Collar Cardigan ($228). Thanks to the beautiful Julia at Gal Meets Glam I got this at a discount. It's so great with tall boots and skinny jeans. Gives that casual vibe without being frumpy. Covers everything you want covered without being baggy. I will say the wool is a little scratchy (it has yak hair in it too). But it's not so bad that I'd return it. Like the WHBM cover up, it's warmer than most cardigans. I hope the fabric holds up and doesn't go all shabby on me like wool
has a habit of doing. At this price point (and with drycleaning) it should be ok.
Splendid colorblock sweater ($118). This is so unflashy. I wouldn't have even looked at it on the rack. But an associate at Nordstrom brought it into my dressing room and off I went with it. Very comfy and surprisingly flattering, for how simple it is. It looks like it would make one look topheavy but for me, that wasn't the case. Simple high-quality style. A definite casual friday contender for work.
Lululemon's Keep it Cozy jacket ($148). Again, unflashy, but the most comfortable fabric you will ever touch. Outside and in. It feels like a velvet marshmallow on the inside and just a marshmallow outside. And is so warm and super lightweight. I basically wear this all weekend now that there's a chill in the air. Even though I'm not working out much these days I live in lululemon gear on the weekends. It's not work appropriate which makes it hard to justify the cost. But it is such a cute sporty piece, I like that there is no hood (when does one ever use the hood part of a hoodie?) and SO functional and presentable that I'm not sure how I used to get through weekends without it. I'm thinking about getting one for my sister for xmas. I hate lululemon's return policy though, she wouldn't be able to exchange it.
What didn't make the cut....
Burberry Brit quilted peplum jacket. Despite the cute silhouette and great color on this, and even the great fit, it just wasn't right. I felt like a spaceman and it was far too light to add any real warmth. The style is a little off for me. A failed ultra modern? Too...quilted? I've never been a fan of Burberry's quilted offerings. I tried to like this, it is really flattering on, but that's not enough when a coat is so expensive.
WHBM tunic ($98). This looks amazing on the model. But the fabric is thick-yet-stiff such that it doesn't hang or rouche when one moves around, it just bulges. It just looks off as a tunic. It would have been great as a dress and I am still mourning the fact that it isn't a sweater dress (just three more inches!!). It is true tunic length, it looks appropriate with just leggings only if you're super skinny and under 22 and it looks silly with jeans because it looks like you are trying to put a sweater dress over jeans. So disappointing.
Burberry Brit Double Breasted Peacoat ($ 895) - this is the second burberry item I've purchased (the other is the obligatory Balmoral trench, below). I don't do this often. It takes a pretty special item for me to spend almost a grand on it. I have returned more burberry coats than I own for not being just right. But this one is just. right. It fits WAY better than the Balmoral. It's a little more forgiving in the arms and chest (I have a very modest sized chest area but still have problems with the tightness of the Balmoral in the same size). The fabric is from heaven. It's a wool blend with a hint of cashmere and it's super soft and stays structured-looking without giving up comfort. I love the length, you don't feel like the coat is wearing you. And the styling is amazing. Very typical conservative peacoat in the front (I was afraid it looked a little too military on the models but it is fine in person), no ridiculous flashy old fashioned buttons, and the pleating in back makes it so feminine without being too girly. I'm in love with this. I also wanted something other than the typical black that wouldn't show dirt too much and navy is so classic. See I can't stop talking about this one. 
Draped Collar Cover Up from White House Black Market ($88) - I was in WHBM for something totally unrelated and the saleswoman put this in my dressing room to try and I haven't really taken it off since. The picture doesn't really do it justice. It goes with everything and adds style to whatever else I'm wearing. And it didn't break the bank like the first couple items. It's really warm, unlike some other flimsy cardigans I have from some other mid-range, trendy stores who shall remain nameless. And it resists pilling or looking old even after having worn it for a hundred days in a row (I'm exaggerating a little but I am impressed at how well it holds up). It's also an amazing length, covers the muffin top zone and hangs low enough in the back. It's styled well too, the drape collar looks more like a subtle ruffle collar and I love the angle the front hem is cut at.
Unfortunately this next one is no longer available (maybe on ebay?) but I've also been wearing it a lot lately and there are similar jackets out there. This is also from WHBM and cost a bit more than the last, $395 I think. It's their "tiered" leather jacket from last year. This thing is so cute, the front has tiered panels and the bottom has a little peplum style ruffle that goes all the way around to the back. Some of the reviews warned me not to try it on if I wasn't prepared to buy it. They were right. It's so cute and so comfortable. I have never owned a leather jacket and don't think i will ever need another. While this one is playing to the ruffle and peplum trends, it may end up being a classic since the detailing is more feminine than trendy. 
BCBG Zoie Shawl-Collar Cardigan ($228). Thanks to the beautiful Julia at Gal Meets Glam I got this at a discount. It's so great with tall boots and skinny jeans. Gives that casual vibe without being frumpy. Covers everything you want covered without being baggy. I will say the wool is a little scratchy (it has yak hair in it too). But it's not so bad that I'd return it. Like the WHBM cover up, it's warmer than most cardigans. I hope the fabric holds up and doesn't go all shabby on me like wool has a habit of doing. At this price point (and with drycleaning) it should be ok.
Splendid colorblock sweater ($118). This is so unflashy. I wouldn't have even looked at it on the rack. But an associate at Nordstrom brought it into my dressing room and off I went with it. Very comfy and surprisingly flattering, for how simple it is. It looks like it would make one look topheavy but for me, that wasn't the case. Simple high-quality style. A definite casual friday contender for work.
Lululemon's Keep it Cozy jacket ($148). Again, unflashy, but the most comfortable fabric you will ever touch. Outside and in. It feels like a velvet marshmallow on the inside and just a marshmallow outside. And is so warm and super lightweight. I basically wear this all weekend now that there's a chill in the air. Even though I'm not working out much these days I live in lululemon gear on the weekends. It's not work appropriate which makes it hard to justify the cost. But it is such a cute sporty piece, I like that there is no hood (when does one ever use the hood part of a hoodie?) and SO functional and presentable that I'm not sure how I used to get through weekends without it. I'm thinking about getting one for my sister for xmas. I hate lululemon's return policy though, she wouldn't be able to exchange it. What didn't make the cut....
Burberry Brit quilted peplum jacket. Despite the cute silhouette and great color on this, and even the great fit, it just wasn't right. I felt like a spaceman and it was far too light to add any real warmth. The style is a little off for me. A failed ultra modern? Too...quilted? I've never been a fan of Burberry's quilted offerings. I tried to like this, it is really flattering on, but that's not enough when a coat is so expensive.
Monday, October 28, 2013
Inside Out
Have I spent an insane amount of money on topical skincare products since I turned 32 and realized that, despite my greatest hopes, I am not immune to aging? Yes. Has that helped? Yes. My skin looks better, less lined, less breakouts, more even. But throughout, I have understood that the things that have the most impact on the way your skin looks are on the inside. Genetics is impact-maker #1 which can be both good and bad, depending on who you are. For someone like me who has inherited dry skin with sizable pores and underlying redness, it's not great. Genetics is the one factor over which we have no control. But skin (and hair and nail and general body) condition also has a lot to do with diet. So to supplement my obsessive topical regime, I have tried to incorporate some healthy dietary habits. It's a pretty basic list, so far. Please add suggestions if you have them.
More water. It's (basically) free and is probably inside-out-impact-maker #2 after Genetics. I only had four New Year's resolutions for 2013 and drinking more water was one of them. Note that one of them was not "work out more," I don't like to make generic idle resolutions. I was serious about this one. Unfortunately I don't think I've done that great a job. And whatever good I've done has probably been undone by the amount of alcohol I drink (what can i say, I like a beer or glass of wine (or two) at the end of the day). So here is an area for improvement.
Omegas! Only recently have I discovered the value of the essential fats contained in omega oils. This is certainly not the best tasting stuff, I think there are others out there that might rank higher on taste. But it can be blended into a lot of dishes like salads, sandwhiches, smoothies, dips, and spreads in a way that makes it palatable and even a great addition. I also find that I like it more the more I use it - I guess it's an acquired taste.
This supplement is especially important to me because I have a vegetarian diet. And not just any ol' omegas, in any ol' combination will do. It has to be the perfect 3-6-9 blend. This stuff is important not just for skin health and clarity but also for physicial performance and can help our aging bodies stay active and fit! I've only tried Udo's Oil for this and have seen results in about a month of use. Breakouts during that time have decreased, and my skin looks firmer and more moisturized.
Less alcohol. Ugh. This is the one I am most resistant to. I know it does damage, but this might fall into the "it's worth it" category for me. Also, red wine is good for your skin and anti-aging of the body in general. Even better than grape juice. Because the fermenting process in red wine uses the skin and seeds of the grape (as opposed to grape juice where all of this is removed) there is a higher concentration of antioxidants (including resveratrol) in red wine as compared to grape juice. The recommendation is one glass a day for the ladies. If you can stick to that, bottoms up!
Vitamins. From food. I am not a fan of the chalky pill vitamins. The safer and more effective way to get them is from the food they come in naturally. The important things for skin are vitamin C (oranges, pineapple) for helping the body to produce collagen, vitamin E (tofu, leafy greens, nuts, seeds, and avocados) to help skin protect itself from UV rays and prevent oxidative stress, beta carotine (carrots, sweet potatoes, grapefruit, broccoli), which the body converts into vitamin A (which is retinol), and Selenium (barley, button mushrooms, mustard seeds, several types of oleic fish) promotes elasticity, zinc (wheat germ, spinach, pumpkin seeds, nuts, chocolate!) to protect cell membranes, maintain collagen, and promote cell renewal. I bought a blender and some protein powder and am starting to incorporate a berry or other fruit smoothie (with some udo's oil thrown in) into my morning routine. I didn't really have a breakfast habit before now other than water to re-hydrate from the night and a mocha or other spruced up coffee whenever I got the chance. Yes it adds a couple more steps to my life: add ingredients, blend, clean (ugh!). But hopefully this will also fall into the "it's worth it" category.
More water. It's (basically) free and is probably inside-out-impact-maker #2 after Genetics. I only had four New Year's resolutions for 2013 and drinking more water was one of them. Note that one of them was not "work out more," I don't like to make generic idle resolutions. I was serious about this one. Unfortunately I don't think I've done that great a job. And whatever good I've done has probably been undone by the amount of alcohol I drink (what can i say, I like a beer or glass of wine (or two) at the end of the day). So here is an area for improvement.
Omegas! Only recently have I discovered the value of the essential fats contained in omega oils. This is certainly not the best tasting stuff, I think there are others out there that might rank higher on taste. But it can be blended into a lot of dishes like salads, sandwhiches, smoothies, dips, and spreads in a way that makes it palatable and even a great addition. I also find that I like it more the more I use it - I guess it's an acquired taste. This supplement is especially important to me because I have a vegetarian diet. And not just any ol' omegas, in any ol' combination will do. It has to be the perfect 3-6-9 blend. This stuff is important not just for skin health and clarity but also for physicial performance and can help our aging bodies stay active and fit! I've only tried Udo's Oil for this and have seen results in about a month of use. Breakouts during that time have decreased, and my skin looks firmer and more moisturized.
Less alcohol. Ugh. This is the one I am most resistant to. I know it does damage, but this might fall into the "it's worth it" category for me. Also, red wine is good for your skin and anti-aging of the body in general. Even better than grape juice. Because the fermenting process in red wine uses the skin and seeds of the grape (as opposed to grape juice where all of this is removed) there is a higher concentration of antioxidants (including resveratrol) in red wine as compared to grape juice. The recommendation is one glass a day for the ladies. If you can stick to that, bottoms up!
Vitamins. From food. I am not a fan of the chalky pill vitamins. The safer and more effective way to get them is from the food they come in naturally. The important things for skin are vitamin C (oranges, pineapple) for helping the body to produce collagen, vitamin E (tofu, leafy greens, nuts, seeds, and avocados) to help skin protect itself from UV rays and prevent oxidative stress, beta carotine (carrots, sweet potatoes, grapefruit, broccoli), which the body converts into vitamin A (which is retinol), and Selenium (barley, button mushrooms, mustard seeds, several types of oleic fish) promotes elasticity, zinc (wheat germ, spinach, pumpkin seeds, nuts, chocolate!) to protect cell membranes, maintain collagen, and promote cell renewal. I bought a blender and some protein powder and am starting to incorporate a berry or other fruit smoothie (with some udo's oil thrown in) into my morning routine. I didn't really have a breakfast habit before now other than water to re-hydrate from the night and a mocha or other spruced up coffee whenever I got the chance. Yes it adds a couple more steps to my life: add ingredients, blend, clean (ugh!). But hopefully this will also fall into the "it's worth it" category.
Thursday, October 17, 2013
Empties
I really appreciate "empties" posts, it's an interesting way to get a blogger's views out about a collection of products tied together only by the fact that, for better or worse, they're over with. It's a slightly arbitrary but brilliant way to define a collection of products to review for the day. I also think the true test of whether someone really likes something is whether they repurchase it and "empties" posts are a good way for bloggers to put their money where their mouths are - the ultimate test of whether they really like the products they have showcased is whether they will repurchase. It's like a "what I can and can't live without" post.
Personally I like empty cosmetic and skincare containers because it means I got my money's worth. I hate having products sit on the shelf unused - and sometimes they will sit for years because I spent a lot of money on them or they're very high-quality or popular or whatever the reason. And then eventually those get thrown out anyway, half full (or more!). That makes me sad. I am particularly sad to say I have never "hit pan" in my life. Ever. And I bet I'm not alone. The first lip product I ever got to the end of was my SUGAR lip treatment and I couldn't have been more happy and proud of myself. Finally, since I am an anti-hoarder, it gives me a sense of relief to lessen the clutter in my bathroom (I'll pretend to ignore for the moment that for every empty I throw away I'm sure I purchase six more products to try).
Incidentally, since I am "a returner" I think I might introduce a segment of the weekend's returns too. The reasons for a return also tend to be a pretty strong signal about one's feelings about a product and can provide a good segue to a review of the product. So stay tuned!
Here are my empties in the last couple weeks, and of course, my thoughts about them.
Dior hydra life pro youth sorbet cream: I love this product for a mid-range, pleasant but no-frills moisturizer. It smells clean and not overpowering, the formula is soft but rich and absorbs well. It works under makeup. And the range has a number of products for day, night, eyes, etc. that are equally pleasant and pretty effective at moisturizing. They don't really claim to do anything else. I repurchased this and the more fluid SPF version a number of times before I discovered La Mer. Prior to La Mer, while I was using the Dior, I still noticed some flakiness to my skin and thought - well, I'm using a high-end brand, there must be nothing that can fix this problem. But then I found La Mer and it solved my dry skin problems. Since nothing compares to La Mer for my very dry skin (and since I am gainfully employed) I think I will stick to that regime but if you're looking in the $50-$100 price range for something simple, particularly for combo skin, I don't think it gets much better than Dior's Hydra Life line.
Nexxus Pro-Mend Heat Protexx spray: You may start to notice a trend here. The only time I venture into drug store products is for my hair. I'm not sure why that is. I think it's because I gravitate towards the best treatments for me and, for me, the drug store hair treatments are just as effective as any of the high-end versions I've tried. This is just not true of, for example, foundations, shadows, bronzers, and moisturizers. I blow dry and flat iron a few times a week - and I use this stuff religiously before every heat treatment. I adore this stuff, and I've tried quite a few heat protectants in all price ranges. Sprays, serums, creams. Nothing comes close to the simplicity and effectiveness of this product. The things I like most about it are (a) it's a very light formula, not sticky or oily or cakey or drying the way others can be, and you feel that even if you sprayed the whole bottle onto your head it wouldn't change the texture or style you are otherwise trying to achieve with your hair. It's like water in that way, only it's not water, it's magic, and (b) perhaps this is because it's so light and not trying too hard to be a complex treatment - the spray distribution is great. The nozzle is great, the fine mist is perfect, I love the application. It's also effective, as far as I can tell. I use my flat iron at an abusive 410 degrees and my hair is silky soft and not too dry, no change in color or texture after years of this.
Dior Instant Eye Makeup Remover: I like this remover. I don't know if it's the best as I have only ever used a few others (Clinique's and Bobbi Brown's bi-phase removers) but it is the best that I've tried as far as getting makeup off without having to use too much effort. It doesn't sting eyes or skin and it claims to condition eyelashes. I don't know if that's true but at least my eyelashes haven't deteriorated from everyday use of this product. I also love LOVE that it's a twist off top, my pet peeve for all of the cosmetics industry is this obsession with child-proof caps on eye makeup remover. I HATE it, with my Clinique remover I thought I was going to get carpal tunnel. I have young children and I still hate it. There are certain products that one must keep away from children if one has them. If eye-makeup remover falls into that category then so be it, I'll keep it away from them. Also, how arbitrary is it that eyemakeup remover comes with child-proof caps but nail polish remover (probably more hazardous), and for that matter nail polish, come with normal screw caps. Stop the madness. You might be surprised to hear that I am not repurchasing this right now. I'm phasing out eye makeup remover from my routine. I am going to try to rely instead on just a pre-wash with cleansing oil before my normal face wash with my Mia2. I do the cleansing oil pre-wash anyway and it does a pretty good job with eye makup so why not eliminate a step? We'll see how that goes.
Anastasia tinted brow gel - I have used this for years and I think I'm on my 3rd or 4th tube. It lasts for a long time. Not only is this a repurchase, it's one of those things I make sure to buy a backup of when I'm getting low on the current one so I am never without it. I love it. It sets brow powder and adds a touch of color (which I need for my light-colored brows) and it's so easy. I don't intend to ever stop buying this.
Pantene conditioner: More drugstore hair products. Actually I buy this one at Costco. This is probably the longest-standing product in all of my arsenal. And talk about generic, I don't even know which variety I use because I just buy whatever is on the shelf at costco. I will update when I figure that one out. But I love it. (UPDATE: Itss "Classic." Of course. Completely no frills) I got to Aveda salons to get my hair cut (pitifully infrequently, btw) and I have tried some of their super fancy conditioners. I have also tried the cheapest of the drugstore brands thinking - well if pantene works, why not suave? But I haven't found anything that works as well on either end of the spending spectrum. This. just. works. It makes your hair silky smooth, the texture is nice and easy to distribute, and it sticks on your hair in the shower while you're letting it soak in.
Laura Mercier Full Blown Volume lash-building mascara: I like it, it is lash building, I don't know about it's staying power because I use Dior's lash primer under it and that stuff makes everything stay put all day. I don't love it. It's nice when it's brand new but it gets 'old' fast, sticky and clumpy. I'm not going to repurchase. I think there are better cheaper options. Like clinique's mascaras.
Smashbox High Definition Concealer: Not only do I always repurchase this, I have THREE current tubes because one or two is not enough. One in my purse, one at work, and one in my morning stash. With any concealer, you need to find the perfect storm...of texture, shade, ease of application for the purpose you're using it for, consistency, buildability. This is the perfect storm for me. It works for blemishes and redness. I don't use it for undereyes but I hear it's great for that too. So this is a favorite, but concealer is such a personal thing that I can't assume it will be the best for anyone else. Some people love the concealer that comes in pans and you have to blend two shades - tried it, hated it. So there you go.
La mer moisturizing lotion: The ultrarich cream is my holy grail for night cream right now. I bought it for the first time in mid-july and I'm hitting the end of the 2oz jar right about next week. If used in conjunction with the even more ridiculously priced concentrate there is just no equal for a night treatment. I will be repurchasing this. As I mentioned above, it wasn't until this stuff that I finally said goodbye to flaky dryness during the day forever. It's a little rich for day so currently I mix it with the La Mer sunscreen and that combination works well under makeup. I am debating whether to substitute the La Mer Soft Cream for my daytime regimen and save the rich stuff for night. The soft cream is a lot more mixable and spreadable. The rich stuff you have to emulsify really really well and then still it really drags if you try to "spread" it on. It's meant to be patted on but then you are left with a thicker layer of really rich moisturizer - thus its perfection for night.
Clinique Lid Smoothie: Last but not least, another repurchase. I use it as a base. It works well for that and comes in great neutrals. I have Bit O' Honey (for shimmery days) and Cashew Later (for more neutral days) and plan to repurchase both. Goes on easily, sheer enough to use as a base (some people complain about the sheerness but I am all about subtlety and natural looks), holds makeup and doesn't crease too badly. It definitely stays on all day, even if you do notice a line in there - which I don't always. This rivals the Chanel pots of cream eyeshadow for longevity and performance as a base.
Personally I like empty cosmetic and skincare containers because it means I got my money's worth. I hate having products sit on the shelf unused - and sometimes they will sit for years because I spent a lot of money on them or they're very high-quality or popular or whatever the reason. And then eventually those get thrown out anyway, half full (or more!). That makes me sad. I am particularly sad to say I have never "hit pan" in my life. Ever. And I bet I'm not alone. The first lip product I ever got to the end of was my SUGAR lip treatment and I couldn't have been more happy and proud of myself. Finally, since I am an anti-hoarder, it gives me a sense of relief to lessen the clutter in my bathroom (I'll pretend to ignore for the moment that for every empty I throw away I'm sure I purchase six more products to try).
Incidentally, since I am "a returner" I think I might introduce a segment of the weekend's returns too. The reasons for a return also tend to be a pretty strong signal about one's feelings about a product and can provide a good segue to a review of the product. So stay tuned!
Here are my empties in the last couple weeks, and of course, my thoughts about them.
Dior hydra life pro youth sorbet cream: I love this product for a mid-range, pleasant but no-frills moisturizer. It smells clean and not overpowering, the formula is soft but rich and absorbs well. It works under makeup. And the range has a number of products for day, night, eyes, etc. that are equally pleasant and pretty effective at moisturizing. They don't really claim to do anything else. I repurchased this and the more fluid SPF version a number of times before I discovered La Mer. Prior to La Mer, while I was using the Dior, I still noticed some flakiness to my skin and thought - well, I'm using a high-end brand, there must be nothing that can fix this problem. But then I found La Mer and it solved my dry skin problems. Since nothing compares to La Mer for my very dry skin (and since I am gainfully employed) I think I will stick to that regime but if you're looking in the $50-$100 price range for something simple, particularly for combo skin, I don't think it gets much better than Dior's Hydra Life line. 
Nexxus Pro-Mend Heat Protexx spray: You may start to notice a trend here. The only time I venture into drug store products is for my hair. I'm not sure why that is. I think it's because I gravitate towards the best treatments for me and, for me, the drug store hair treatments are just as effective as any of the high-end versions I've tried. This is just not true of, for example, foundations, shadows, bronzers, and moisturizers. I blow dry and flat iron a few times a week - and I use this stuff religiously before every heat treatment. I adore this stuff, and I've tried quite a few heat protectants in all price ranges. Sprays, serums, creams. Nothing comes close to the simplicity and effectiveness of this product. The things I like most about it are (a) it's a very light formula, not sticky or oily or cakey or drying the way others can be, and you feel that even if you sprayed the whole bottle onto your head it wouldn't change the texture or style you are otherwise trying to achieve with your hair. It's like water in that way, only it's not water, it's magic, and (b) perhaps this is because it's so light and not trying too hard to be a complex treatment - the spray distribution is great. The nozzle is great, the fine mist is perfect, I love the application. It's also effective, as far as I can tell. I use my flat iron at an abusive 410 degrees and my hair is silky soft and not too dry, no change in color or texture after years of this. 
Dior Instant Eye Makeup Remover: I like this remover. I don't know if it's the best as I have only ever used a few others (Clinique's and Bobbi Brown's bi-phase removers) but it is the best that I've tried as far as getting makeup off without having to use too much effort. It doesn't sting eyes or skin and it claims to condition eyelashes. I don't know if that's true but at least my eyelashes haven't deteriorated from everyday use of this product. I also love LOVE that it's a twist off top, my pet peeve for all of the cosmetics industry is this obsession with child-proof caps on eye makeup remover. I HATE it, with my Clinique remover I thought I was going to get carpal tunnel. I have young children and I still hate it. There are certain products that one must keep away from children if one has them. If eye-makeup remover falls into that category then so be it, I'll keep it away from them. Also, how arbitrary is it that eyemakeup remover comes with child-proof caps but nail polish remover (probably more hazardous), and for that matter nail polish, come with normal screw caps. Stop the madness. You might be surprised to hear that I am not repurchasing this right now. I'm phasing out eye makeup remover from my routine. I am going to try to rely instead on just a pre-wash with cleansing oil before my normal face wash with my Mia2. I do the cleansing oil pre-wash anyway and it does a pretty good job with eye makup so why not eliminate a step? We'll see how that goes. 
Anastasia tinted brow gel - I have used this for years and I think I'm on my 3rd or 4th tube. It lasts for a long time. Not only is this a repurchase, it's one of those things I make sure to buy a backup of when I'm getting low on the current one so I am never without it. I love it. It sets brow powder and adds a touch of color (which I need for my light-colored brows) and it's so easy. I don't intend to ever stop buying this. Pantene conditioner: More drugstore hair products. Actually I buy this one at Costco. This is probably the longest-standing product in all of my arsenal. And talk about generic, I don't even know which variety I use because I just buy whatever is on the shelf at costco. I will update when I figure that one out. But I love it. (UPDATE: Itss "Classic." Of course. Completely no frills) I got to Aveda salons to get my hair cut (pitifully infrequently, btw) and I have tried some of their super fancy conditioners. I have also tried the cheapest of the drugstore brands thinking - well if pantene works, why not suave? But I haven't found anything that works as well on either end of the spending spectrum. This. just. works. It makes your hair silky smooth, the texture is nice and easy to distribute, and it sticks on your hair in the shower while you're letting it soak in.
Laura Mercier Full Blown Volume lash-building mascara: I like it, it is lash building, I don't know about it's staying power because I use Dior's lash primer under it and that stuff makes everything stay put all day. I don't love it. It's nice when it's brand new but it gets 'old' fast, sticky and clumpy. I'm not going to repurchase. I think there are better cheaper options. Like clinique's mascaras.
Smashbox High Definition Concealer: Not only do I always repurchase this, I have THREE current tubes because one or two is not enough. One in my purse, one at work, and one in my morning stash. With any concealer, you need to find the perfect storm...of texture, shade, ease of application for the purpose you're using it for, consistency, buildability. This is the perfect storm for me. It works for blemishes and redness. I don't use it for undereyes but I hear it's great for that too. So this is a favorite, but concealer is such a personal thing that I can't assume it will be the best for anyone else. Some people love the concealer that comes in pans and you have to blend two shades - tried it, hated it. So there you go. 
La mer moisturizing lotion: The ultrarich cream is my holy grail for night cream right now. I bought it for the first time in mid-july and I'm hitting the end of the 2oz jar right about next week. If used in conjunction with the even more ridiculously priced concentrate there is just no equal for a night treatment. I will be repurchasing this. As I mentioned above, it wasn't until this stuff that I finally said goodbye to flaky dryness during the day forever. It's a little rich for day so currently I mix it with the La Mer sunscreen and that combination works well under makeup. I am debating whether to substitute the La Mer Soft Cream for my daytime regimen and save the rich stuff for night. The soft cream is a lot more mixable and spreadable. The rich stuff you have to emulsify really really well and then still it really drags if you try to "spread" it on. It's meant to be patted on but then you are left with a thicker layer of really rich moisturizer - thus its perfection for night.
Clinique Lid Smoothie: Last but not least, another repurchase. I use it as a base. It works well for that and comes in great neutrals. I have Bit O' Honey (for shimmery days) and Cashew Later (for more neutral days) and plan to repurchase both. Goes on easily, sheer enough to use as a base (some people complain about the sheerness but I am all about subtlety and natural looks), holds makeup and doesn't crease too badly. It definitely stays on all day, even if you do notice a line in there - which I don't always. This rivals the Chanel pots of cream eyeshadow for longevity and performance as a base.
Saturday, October 12, 2013
Fall boots revisited
Remember my beloved Cassidy booties?
Cole Haan, $278, 2.75" heel.
Well, I took them back. Here's why. They were tighter everywhere than the Cassidy's of last year. I wore them to a party and had to take them off halfway through they hurt so much. TAKE THEM OFF! Total fashion nightmare. I wore my old Cassidys today and I'm pretty sure I could sport them in a marathon with little to no discomfort. Also, I realized I don't want to settle for nubuck (the only black material I could find them in). Nubuck is fine if you're looking for that suede, casual look and there's no chance it will get dirty or wet. But that is the opposite of my situation. I want something sleek, work appropriate, and that I can clean to a new shine. And at these price points, I'm going to get picky.
Speaking of high price points, as a substitute, I settled on these:
Rag & Bone, Newbury ankle boots, $495, 3.25" heel
I wore them all day yesterday and here's what I think. As compared to the Cassidy bootie, the first thing I noticed was that in the same size, they are roomier throughout. I think that comes from a slightly wider width, but it's not wide enough to look off (or slip off). They are also about a half inch higher than the Cassidy's and almost on the too-tall side for me. It's not really the hight of the heel that determines whether I can wear it, unfortunately (if it were I'd just know not to buy above a certain height). Like many things, it's really all about proportions. How close the heel is to the toe (the angle is a little more harsh the smaller the foot is), where the shoe's heel is positioned in relation to the center of gravity of my heel, etc. And these boots are just on the "but it's ok" side of being a little too high. All heels shorten your stride, but these boots make me feel like my stride is artificially shortened. It's not enough to make me return them, they are really comfortable despite the stride issue and the height. And you do get the consolation of being taller. You just have to walk slower.
They look adorable with everything - bootcuts, skinny jeans, work pants, dresses. Have I mentioned I'm excited for fall?
So excited in fact that I also purchased a related long-time wish-list item. I needed new tall black flat boots. The ones I've got are Cole Haans from three or four years ago and they're made of super thin leather that has been great for clinging to my skinny calf but the disadvantage is that they have stretched out over the years and look a little rippled, despite regular conditioning. They're in ok shape (I am quite diligent about maintenance of all of my leather shoes and bags) and I'll still wear them, but I needed something a little sturdier. They still needed to be dressy enough for work though. The other problem with the old CH's is that they have a slightly elongated and then squared off toe. So not chic. Was that ever popular? Finally, although the new tall boots have a little gappiness and don't cling to my calf as well as the old ones, that can come in handy when I'm wearing pants or leggings. The old boots can't be worn over anything but socks. The new ones I can wear with anything. I do find it kind of obscene that I have to have one pair that is calf-clinging for when I'm wearing skirts and dresses and one pair that can go over skinny pants. But being fashionable is rarely cheap.
Here are the new additions:
Cole Haan Dover, $448
These are amazing. The heel doesn't rub like other tall boots (if you get the right size) and they have Nike Air technology. The style is classic and neat. And they look high-quality. You can't tell from the picture but they have a full zip up the inside of the calf. The heel, I think, is perfect for flats. The tread is pretty serious and the sole comes out quite a bit from the upper which is not my favorite thing about them but it will probably be better for the boot's longevity in wet weather.
So my fall shoe collection is complete (see this and this post too for more eye candy!). Too bad it's going to be in the 80's where I live this week!
Cole Haan, $278, 2.75" heel.
Well, I took them back. Here's why. They were tighter everywhere than the Cassidy's of last year. I wore them to a party and had to take them off halfway through they hurt so much. TAKE THEM OFF! Total fashion nightmare. I wore my old Cassidys today and I'm pretty sure I could sport them in a marathon with little to no discomfort. Also, I realized I don't want to settle for nubuck (the only black material I could find them in). Nubuck is fine if you're looking for that suede, casual look and there's no chance it will get dirty or wet. But that is the opposite of my situation. I want something sleek, work appropriate, and that I can clean to a new shine. And at these price points, I'm going to get picky.
Speaking of high price points, as a substitute, I settled on these:
Rag & Bone, Newbury ankle boots, $495, 3.25" heel
I wore them all day yesterday and here's what I think. As compared to the Cassidy bootie, the first thing I noticed was that in the same size, they are roomier throughout. I think that comes from a slightly wider width, but it's not wide enough to look off (or slip off). They are also about a half inch higher than the Cassidy's and almost on the too-tall side for me. It's not really the hight of the heel that determines whether I can wear it, unfortunately (if it were I'd just know not to buy above a certain height). Like many things, it's really all about proportions. How close the heel is to the toe (the angle is a little more harsh the smaller the foot is), where the shoe's heel is positioned in relation to the center of gravity of my heel, etc. And these boots are just on the "but it's ok" side of being a little too high. All heels shorten your stride, but these boots make me feel like my stride is artificially shortened. It's not enough to make me return them, they are really comfortable despite the stride issue and the height. And you do get the consolation of being taller. You just have to walk slower.
They look adorable with everything - bootcuts, skinny jeans, work pants, dresses. Have I mentioned I'm excited for fall?
So excited in fact that I also purchased a related long-time wish-list item. I needed new tall black flat boots. The ones I've got are Cole Haans from three or four years ago and they're made of super thin leather that has been great for clinging to my skinny calf but the disadvantage is that they have stretched out over the years and look a little rippled, despite regular conditioning. They're in ok shape (I am quite diligent about maintenance of all of my leather shoes and bags) and I'll still wear them, but I needed something a little sturdier. They still needed to be dressy enough for work though. The other problem with the old CH's is that they have a slightly elongated and then squared off toe. So not chic. Was that ever popular? Finally, although the new tall boots have a little gappiness and don't cling to my calf as well as the old ones, that can come in handy when I'm wearing pants or leggings. The old boots can't be worn over anything but socks. The new ones I can wear with anything. I do find it kind of obscene that I have to have one pair that is calf-clinging for when I'm wearing skirts and dresses and one pair that can go over skinny pants. But being fashionable is rarely cheap.
Here are the new additions:
Cole Haan Dover, $448
These are amazing. The heel doesn't rub like other tall boots (if you get the right size) and they have Nike Air technology. The style is classic and neat. And they look high-quality. You can't tell from the picture but they have a full zip up the inside of the calf. The heel, I think, is perfect for flats. The tread is pretty serious and the sole comes out quite a bit from the upper which is not my favorite thing about them but it will probably be better for the boot's longevity in wet weather.
So my fall shoe collection is complete (see this and this post too for more eye candy!). Too bad it's going to be in the 80's where I live this week!
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